a note to a young man i have yet to meet.

Dear Darius.

A womans mind and heart are different from a man,
but they are the same.

They are seeking life and preservation and a good future,
and supply. and pleasant things.

But what is a pleasant thing?

There are pleasant things that are brief. short. temporary.

..and there are pleasant things that last...

To find and discern 'LASTING PLEASURE' is a very very important piece of work.


A womans heart.
A womans heart and mind can SHOW A MAN what he has forgotten.
..or what he has overlooked. Or what he has "lied to himself" about.

The womans mind and heart are a GOOD THING to learn from so that you
can find "pleasure that LASTS".

But there is a higher mind than the human mind.

If you can KNOW that 'higher mind' you will not be "tricked"
when you are in your 'chase for pleasure'. If you can KNOW
that 'higher mind' you will not
be so easily distracted by 'other' minds. Mens mind AND Womens minds.

Often the womans voice and mind is 'in line' with the 'higher mind' for the man.

In this life there is a lot of trouble, and there are things that we can CHOOSE
..that we later become ashamed of. To find a way to live with 'no shame" is
a very very PLEASANT way to find. It is easy to choose shameful things.

Here is the "safe way" that is pleasant.

1) "It was WRONG of me to do that"

2) "it was WRONG of me to speak in that 'tone of voice' to you,
i want to ALWAYS be as kind as i can be towards you even
if i am 'feeling angry'."

3)There is ALWAYS a way to find the 'one little thing' in an argument
that i can call 'MY BAD'. -before i say ANY complaint about the other person.

4) I want a SPIRIT OF HONESTY to destroy every spirit of evil, and
every spirit that would say that what is wrong is 'right'.


BUT there is a truly huge part of the human population who do not care about spirits or 'hearing the voice of the perfect 'God-Mind'.



So they will call you crazy or insane if you try to find the most 'pleasant' way that LASTS
***(accusing yourself of your own evil, not the other person.)
***(focusing on tone/bodylanguage expression and accusing yourself FIRST to have
..no shame.. no attack from your side of a communication you must express kind TRUTH)
***(focus on what 'SPIRIT' is in operation as you observe.. because you have humans
..AND spirit-beings all around you who can operate ..affecting and influencing humans.
spirit of deception / spirit of pride/ spirit of humility / spirit of greed
spirit of weakness-laziness / spirit of fear-terror /
spirit of 'accusing somebody else' / ..or even self-destructive spirit)

It is HARD WORK ! but there is actual assistance available from the 'strongest spirit'
the 'spirit who is a rescuer' yah-shua is a word that means
spirit who is a rescuer.



there is a small, uncomfortable path full of branches in your face.
(but you have to CHOOSE it)
that path is the path that very few people take because it doesnt 'feel good'

there is a small difficult opening to 'push through' that most people avoid,
that 'small window' does not seem like a 'logical way' to go. (it seems STUPID to most.)

the 'small window-gate', and the 'uncomfortable path' is the way that leads to
"LASTING PLEASURE" (life-eternal life) and only a few people find it.




Dont look for shortcuts to God. The world is flooded with 'ways of success' and 'find your dreams and make them real' formulas for a 'nice life'. Dont fall for that stuff, even though lots and lots of people do. The real way to taking hold of Life, and of God-'strongestSpirit' takes total attention and a really courageous attitude !


BE READY TO DO THE THINGS THAT 'NOBODY ELSE' DOES..
watch your mouth.
intensely focus on caring for those who have NOTHING compared to you
..the forgotten, the left out, the 'crazy'..
remain 'unpolluted' by your surroundings..
dont do the same USELESS stuff that the people around you are doing

those are Yahshua words. rescue words. you gotta focus on
finding some ways to get YOURSELF truly
rescued, before
you can help somebody else.

and remember..
often the womans voice and heart and mind are 'gods voice' to the man.
we gotta learn to listen to the woman and GOD at the same time. its not an easy job,
but SOMEBODYS gotta do it, otherwise the family and the tribe gets ruined, and
I.. the MAN am often the problem !!